From observing many souls over the years and studying how their self-love and service to others interact, I’ve come to a conclusion that surprised me at first: less than 0.1% of the world’s population has genuinely developed both. That number stopped me when I first calculated it. Most people either lack self-love, lack the impulse to serve others, or have a thin version of one while missing the other entirely. And yet both are needed for real spiritual growth . They’re not o