Updated: May 19
As human beings, we are all on a journey of growth and self-discovery. For couples, this journey can be even more profound and transformative when they share it together. One aspect of growth that is often overlooked in relationships is spiritual growth. Nurturing your spiritual growth as a couple can deepen your connection, provide a sense of purpose and meaning, and help you navigate life's challenges with more ease and grace.
If you're looking to take your relationship to the next level, embarking on a journey of spiritual growth can be a powerful way to do so. In this guide, we'll explore some practical steps you can take to nurture your spiritual growth as a couple, and how it can benefit your relationship in ways you may never have imagined. So, strap in, open your hearts, and get ready to embark on a journey of spiritual discovery with your partner.
Spiritual growth can be a deeply personal journey, but what happens when one partner in a relationship is on a path of spiritual growth while the other is not? This can create challenges and opportunities for growth in the relationship. In this post, we'll explore how one partner's spiritual growth can influence the other, and discuss alternative ways for couples to grow spiritually together.
What does soul growth mean?
If a person starts to awaken spiritually, so grows soul awareness, it means it reached spiritual awakening, her third eye starts to open, spiritual discernment also starts to improve, maybe goes through a kundalini awakening, and so on.
Generally, if you really reached an advanced spiritual level it means you progressed significantly as soul vibration (awareness), and maybe also as body awareness. A higher soul & body vibration means, using a metaphor, that you passed from 1st grade spiritually to 2nd or even to 3rd grade. Well, as everyone knows, a 3rd grader studies a quite different curriculum than a 1st grader.
How is a couple's destiny influenced by soul growth?
Spiritual growth is an individual process that involves personal development, self-discovery, and a deepening connection to something greater than oneself. It's a journey of becoming more aware of our inner selves, our values, and our purpose in life. When two people come together in a relationship, they bring their own unique experiences, beliefs, and values. Nurturing spiritual growth as a couple involves finding ways to align those experiences, beliefs, and values, and to deepen the connection between you.
One way to understand spiritual growth in a relationship is to think of it as a journey of exploring and integrating the spiritual aspects of your life. This can include practices such as meditation, prayer, mindfulness, or simply being in nature. It can also involve exploring your beliefs and values and finding ways to align them with your partner's. Ultimately, spiritual growth is about finding a deeper sense of meaning and purpose in life, and exploring what that means for you as a couple.
So, when one progresses spiritually enough his destiny will be quite possibly adjusted and the souls around with whom he played his former life lessons might not be up to his new more advanced lessons. As a result, in most cases, they will break up. There is a law in Creation that says that “like attracts like”, but the reciprocal is also true like “what's too different as vibration will repel one another”. It means that the more advanced soul needs now other players around for his new “upgraded“ life lessons.
From my findings by observing many spirituals that went from beginners to medium or even advanced spiritual levels, the same thing occurs concerning destiny. If one upgrades to higher vibrations then his destiny is also impacted, which actually means the list of major life lessons a soul came down here to study in life will also adapt to the new awareness level. Obviously, this happens only if the initial life lessons have been graduated correctly.
What do all these mean concerning other souls around? It means that each soul is on his own life path and we are “attracted” to each other due to our complementary needs to experience specific life lessons. I can't experience any life lesson if I am alone in a desert, or secluded in a cave in the mountains. In such a case I can meditate on past experiences it's true, but I don't have access to new ones, I need people around for this.
Does a couple's breakup influence the former souls that helped us pass our initial life lessons? It’s up to them ultimately, it’s their lesson. Even if a couple is married they are still separate as souls and have specific life-lesson. Sure that some life lessons are the same, and ultimately this is why they are together in life for so long, but there are certainly other life lessons that are specific to each of them.
The breakup is inevitable in time if the vibration/awareness gap between the two persons gets too big, since their destinies which were aligned until then start to diverge too much. This is why I noticed from my spiritual practice that for a couple the best and most balanced spiritual progress over the long run is to progress as a couple together and not play the “lone wolf” if possible.
If such a breakup occurs as I mentioned above because of your progress as soul growth, you just are expected to treat the break-up with compassion, love, and integrity. Nevertheless, beyond a certain point, it’s not your lesson anymore but belongs just to your partner who has to make some decisions. It’s a difficult period to go through for sure, but unavoidable many times.
Benefits of Spiritual Growth for Couples
Nurturing your spiritual growth as a couple can have many benefits for your relationship. Here are just a few:
Deeper Connection
When you and your partner explore your spiritual paths together, you deepen your connection on a soul level. You may find that you have a greater understanding of each other's values, beliefs, and experiences, which can lead to deeper intimacy and a stronger bond.
Greater Sense of Purpose
Exploring your spiritual paths can help you and your partner find a greater sense of purpose in life. When you have a shared sense of purpose, you can work together towards common goals, and feel a greater sense of fulfillment and satisfaction in your lives.
Improved Communication
When you and your partner are on the same page spiritually, you may find that communication becomes easier and more open. You may be more willing to listen to each other's perspectives, and more able to express your own thoughts and feelings.
Enhanced Well-Being
Nurturing your spiritual growth can also have a positive impact on your overall well-being. Practices such as meditation and mindfulness have been shown to reduce stress, anxiety, and depression, and can lead to greater feelings of peace and contentment.
In conclusion, if you are not alone on the spiritual path and found yourself a life partner ready to evolve along with you, then consider yourself happy beyond any description!
How to Nurture Spiritual Growth as a Couple
Now that we've explored the benefits of nurturing your spiritual growth as a couple, let's look at some practical steps you can take to get started.
Practicing Gratitude and Appreciation
One of the simplest but most powerful ways to nurture your spiritual growth as a couple is to practice gratitude and appreciation. This involves taking time each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for in your life, and expressing appreciation for your partner.
To get started, you might try keeping a gratitude journal, where you write down three things you are grateful for each day. You could also make a habit of expressing appreciation for your partner every day, either in person or through a note or text message.
Finding Shared Spiritual Practices
Another way to nurture your spiritual growth as a couple is to find shared spiritual practices that you can do together. This might involve attending a meditation or yoga class together, going for a walk in nature, or simply setting aside time each day to meditate or pray together.
The key is to find practices that resonate with both of you, and that you can enjoy together. This can be a great way to deepen your connection and explore your spiritual paths as a couple.
Practicing Forgiveness and Letting Go of Resentment
Forgiveness is an important aspect of spiritual growth, and it's especially important in a relationship. When we hold onto resentment and anger towards our partner, it can create distance and blockages in our spiritual growth.
To nurture your spiritual growth as a couple, it's important to practice forgiveness and to let go of any resentment or anger you may be holding onto. This doesn't mean ignoring or minimizing the hurt you may have experienced, but rather finding a way to release it and move forward in a positive way.
Practicing Mindful Communication
Communication is a key aspect of any relationship, and it's especially important when it comes to nurturing your spiritual growth as a couple. Mindful communication involves being present and fully engaged in your conversations with your partner, and being willing to listen with an open heart and mind.
To practice mindful communication, try setting aside dedicated time each day to have a conversation with your partner. During this time, make a conscious effort to listen fully to what your partner is saying, and to express yourself in a clear and honest way.
Creating and Maintaining a Sacred Space
Finally, creating and maintaining a sacred space can be a powerful way to nurture your spiritual growth as a couple. This might be a physical space in your home, such as an altar or meditation room, or it could be a shared ritual that you practice together.
The key is to find a way to create a space that feels sacred and meaningful to both of you. This can be a powerful way to deepen your connection and explore your spiritual paths together.
Conclusion
Nurturing your spiritual growth as a couple can be a powerful way to deepen your connection, find a greater sense of purpose, and navigate life's challenges with more ease and grace. By practicing gratitude and appreciation, finding shared spiritual practices, practicing forgiveness and letting go of resentment, practicing mindful communication, and creating and maintaining a sacred space, you can embark on a journey of spiritual discovery with your partner that can transform your relationship in ways you may never have imagined.
So, take the time to explore your spiritual paths together, and see where the journey takes you. In conclusion, if you are not alone on the spiritual path and found yourself a life partner ready to evolve along with you, then consider yourself happy beyond any description!
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You can learn more by reading other posts in this spiritual site that are coming from a very different and fresh angle than spiritual mainstream, and based on a very long and personal experience and hands-on research, and not from books.
You might also consider a service like Psychic Readings in the Services section of this site from the ones listed here and get a spiritual diagnosis, or Healing limiting beliefs, or Compatibility for lovers, or attend my spiritual School of Body and Soul Ascension Mastery so to raise your body and soul awareness and reach into higher dimensions.