Updated: May 2
Many people, both spirituals and non-spirituals, ask themselves when being on the quest for their life partner if when meeting such a potential partner if it's also their ideal "soulmate"! In the following I will explain which are the universe's mechanisms which support us in finding our appropriate soulmate at a given point in time.
We are attracted to each other to learn our life lessons
A soul comes on the planet and embodies to experiment life and enrich himself with life experiences he gathers along his soul journey through life. Along life he/she deals with experiences sometimes better and sometimes less so, and depending on the circumstances and the phase in their life two persons will automatically be attracted to each other to complement their needs in reaching their life goals at one moment. Only by these human interactions we have to one another we are given the opoortunity to raise our awareness, to progress in our soul soul growth.
For example, if one person has in plan to experiment the subconscious belief of jealousy he/she will be attracted automatically by a person that will provoke him jealousy crises; this is an example of a “soulmate” … I know, I know, everybody thinks that being with a soulmate should be something of a permanent bliss but that’s wrong. “Soulmate” is that soul that enables you at one point in time to fulfill the fastest your specific life lesson …. And you also help him (as his soulmate) reciprocally to fulfill his. Then you go to the next lesson / experience and the next soulmate, and so on.
We all are antennas
Since energetically we are antennas, we emit around us every second our own vibration we reached at one point in life, and we also receive other people’s emissions. Hence we are automatically attracted to persons who have similar emission as us, or to persons who are very complementary with us on a specific lesson, where one takes the role of aggressor and the other the role of victim in that lesson.
Therefore, in pairs or in groups, we go through life and are attracted to soulmates that help us fulfill our destiny, and in turn we are soulmates for other persons to help them fulfill their destiny.
This is the basic Creation mechanism to ensure embodied souls the opportunities to evolve … or not, ultimately they have free will in their choices. Creation is programmed by these mechanisms to permanently offer embodied soul oportunities to evolve, but we have free will in our choices to accept or not what we are offered.
When two persons who are in some kind of relationship, whether of love, friendship, family, or of some similar kind, find that after a number of years of feeling good together they start suddenly or progressively not to feel the same common vibe as before, then that's the sign they get from Creation that their spiritual path as soulmates has come to an end. Because of inertia, fears and other limiting beliefs, many such couples or friends insist on still staying in close contact, they oppose the split, they ignore that much higher and powerful forces are in place that govern their destiny. They are actually beaconed to move on with their life to the next soulmate, to other life lessons they have in their divine agenda as souls. Of course that since over time strong energy bonds have been created between them when following their common spiritual journey, it's really hard to break them and split, but that's also part of the life lesson.
This Hollywood kind display of soulmates as something romantic, blissful, etc promotes just a very narrow subset of what a true soulmate is (but is predominant in movies since it involves love and sex which certainly will attract audiences and hence big revenues :), that but gained worldwide reputation because of its wrapping in a romantic veil which gained the hearts of the feminine audience especially
It has nothing to do with how Creation mechanisms work.
Be open to everything around you, watch the signs coming from your soul and even your parent-soul (God) by events, persons around you whatever their age is, nature, animals, etc. If you are paying attention, are sensitive to energies, have an open mind and not run by some bias, you will certainly feel I assure you when you are introduced to your new soulmate! Certainly, spiritual practices which lead to spiritual growth, which trigger for instance our kundalini awakening, chakra healing, improve our spiritual discernment, will increase a lot our chances to correctly identify such an opportunity.
You can learn more by reading other posts in this spiritual site that are coming from a very different and fresh angle than spiritual mainstream, and based on a very long and personal experience and hands-on research, and not from books.
You might also consider a service like Psychic Readings in the Services section of this site from the ones listed there and get a spiritual diagnostic, or attend my spiritual School of Body and Soul Ascension Mastery so to raise your body and soul awareness, and reach into higher dimensions.